Sunday, December 8, 2013

Fear Pressure (Temen Presión)

Por favor no alimentes a los miedos
Greeting once again wonderful ones and welcome back.  So very glad to have you here :)  Today's post was inspired by an interesting blog I read a few days back on the subject of fear.  Writing my comment on that made me realize I had much to say on the subject.

Saludando a los vez más maravillosos y bienvenida. Así que muy contento que estés aquí :) El post de hoy está inspirado en un interesante blog que leí unos días atrás sobre el tema del miedo. Escribiendo mi comentario sobre eso me hizo darme cuenta que tenía mucho que decir sobre el tema.

el miedo es un mentiroso

To start, it is important to point out that fear has NO good purpose in a person's life.  Fear is a poison that paralyzes, a tool to control others with, a weapon used mostly by a person against themselves.  If our actions are taken out of fear, those actions are tainted and, at the very least, much less effective and powerful than they could be.

Para empezar, es importante señalar que el miedo no tiene ningún propósito bueno en la vida de una persona. El miedo es un veneno que paraliza, una herramienta para controlar a otros con un arma utilizada por una persona contra sí mismos. Si nuestras acciones se toman por temor, esas acciones están contaminado y, por lo menos, mucho menos efectiva y poderosa de lo que podrían ser.

el miedo vence a más personas que cualquier otra cosa en el mundo

The argument I hear against that is that fears keeps us from making bad decisions, keeps us safe, keeps us free from regret.  That is not fear, that is wisdom.  Do you not stick your hand into a fire for "fear" of being burned or because you "know" you will?  Wisdom is invaluable, fear is worthless.  Telling them apart, at times, is nearly impossible.

El argumento dicen contra eso es que temores nos impide tomar malas decisiones, nos mantiene a salvo, nos mantiene libres de arrepentimiento. Eso no es miedo, que es la sabiduría. ¿No metes la mano al fuego por "temor" de ser quemado o porque "sabe" lo harás? La sabiduría es invaluable, el miedo es inútil. Decirles aparte, a veces, son casi imposible.

luchar contra tus miedos y usted estará en batalla para siempre. Enfréntate a tus miedos y serás libre para siempre

Fear holds me back so much in my life.  Even in the blog world, leaving comments is pretty scary for me much of the time.  Trying to balance being myself with not hurting feelings, offending people, saying the "wrong" thing.  Lately I have been much braver.  Instead of worrying about bowing down to the fears of others by modifying my loving, encouraging, sweet, fun comments, instead I am much more free with my thoughts.

Miedo atrás tanto en mi vida me sostiene. Incluso en el mundo del blog, dejando comentarios es bastante aterrador para mí mucho del tiempo. Tratando de equilibrar siendo yo mismo con no herir sentimientos, ofender a la gente, diciendo que algo 'malo'. Últimamente he estado mucho más valiente. En lugar de preocuparse por inclinarme a los miedos de los demás mediante la modificación de mi amor, alentando, comentarios de dulce, divertidos, en cambio yo soy mucho más libre con mis pensamientos.

No hay temor en el amor

And if that bothers people, well, OK.  They go there way I go mine, maybe a bit discouraged and hurt, but happy that I was bold enough to be me.  There can be no doubt that I am an odd fellow with a quite unique view on things.

Y si eso molesta a la gente, bueno, está bien. Van ahí voy mío, tal vez un poco desanimado y herido, pero que era lo suficientemente audaz para mí ser feliz. No puede haber ninguna duda de que soy un tipo raro con una vista única sobre las cosas.

Aprovechar cada oportunidad. Deja todo temor.

 But what I also know is that when I meet someone equally full of love and willing to let go of fear, they see in me a wonderful ally, a resource, a battery to energize them, and both our lives become enriched.  This is why I am here.  This is why I blog.  To find those people, to gather us together to stand as one.  Fear is a powerful enemy and there is great strength in numbers for any battle.

Pero también sé cuando conozca a alguien igualmente lleno de amor y dispuesto a dejar ir de miedo, que ven en mí un aliado maravilloso, un recurso, una batería para energizarlos y enriquecieron nuestras vidas. Es por eso que estoy aquí. Es por esto blog. Para encontrar esas personas, para reunir juntos a pie como uno. El miedo es un enemigo poderoso y hay mucha fuerza en números para cualquier batalla.

Nadie tiene miedo de decir que te quiero. Tienen miedos de la respuesta.


And so many of you have been so helpful in teaching me to be brave and I thank you.  The encouragement I get here pushes me on and keeps me from being too sad when things do not work out as I had hoped with someone.  You guys amaze me and I will never get tired of telling you so.  Wishing you a life free of fear and always here to help you face them.  Warm hugs all around :)

Y muchos de ustedes han sido tan útiles en la enseñanza a ser valiente y gracias. El estímulo que llegué aquí me empuja y me impide estar muy triste cuando las cosas no salen como esperaba con alguien. Chicos me asombran y nunca me cansaré de decirle así. Deseándoles una vida libre de miedo y siempre aquí para ayudarle a enfrentarse a ellos. Cálidos abrazos todo :)


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December 9, 2013 at 2:19 AM

good!
http://rozaliafashion.blogspot.com/2013/12/sweater-flowers.html

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December 9, 2013 at 8:56 AM

Great post and soooooo true. Fear has to be the worst thing in the world.
xoxo

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December 9, 2013 at 1:25 PM

coool!
www.supongoestilo.blogspot.nl

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December 9, 2013 at 7:48 PM

Love what you had to say about fear and wisdom. In the heat of the moment it is so hard to tell the difference between fear and wisdom. Like so many other things it only becomes clear later. Great post!

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December 9, 2013 at 8:01 PM

Let it percolate and see what bubbles forth :)

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December 9, 2013 at 8:02 PM

It really is. Keeps me from doing things I want to do that I know would be helpful and good. Keeps me from being me. Thanks, sweetie.

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December 9, 2013 at 8:03 PM

So very kind of you, gorgeous! Always glad when you visit :)

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December 9, 2013 at 8:10 PM

That is why it is so important to surround yourself with people who wish to live as fearlessly as you. Really helps with perspective. When we get stuck in our heads things can get very warped. So wonderful to have you visit! Hope you will stop by again

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December 10, 2013 at 4:50 AM

Awesome blog!!!
Can we follow each other via gfc bloglovin and G+?

http://asweetwoorld.blogspot.com/

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December 10, 2013 at 10:57 AM

What a beautiful and perfect message. First time here and I'm so glad I came by!!

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December 10, 2013 at 7:44 PM

nice photos! nice quote indeed to that: "take every chance. drop every fear." :)

http://www.lavinajampit.blogspot.com/

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December 10, 2013 at 10:33 PM

Hello there!

I wanted to sincerely thank you for the post you alluded to me in the other day. I went back and read it and it touched my heart so that you would take the time to write about me and support me in such an incredible way! It makes me so sad that I've never visited your blog before and that you didn't expect me to. I want to have people that read my blog feel like I am approachable, real, and invested in their lives! While I do not feel as though I don't appreciate my readers (love them all to death!) I feel like I could certainly do a better job in being more involved with commenting on other's blogs. Life just gets so busy somedays, but that's no excuse! To show care and compassion towards each other in blogging is what it's all about.

Thank you for always supporting me and being there for me! You have such a wonderful, inspiring blog here :)

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December 11, 2013 at 3:49 AM

good ;)
http://rozaliafashion.blogspot.com/
obserwuje

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December 11, 2013 at 3:01 PM

Hi dear
I've loved this post about fear!!
xoxo

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December 11, 2013 at 5:07 PM

Fear is the enemy. This post is excellent. So true.

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December 11, 2013 at 9:19 PM

Yes, perhaps I want no part of your bubbles. Will take your word for it.

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December 11, 2013 at 9:21 PM

Thanks so much, sweetie. Of course I will follow your blog :)

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December 11, 2013 at 9:22 PM

Thank you so much! Wonderful to have you stop by. Such kind words :)

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December 11, 2013 at 9:23 PM

Very cool of you, sweetie. I think you are a pretty brave lady :)

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December 11, 2013 at 9:28 PM

Wow! Hi Lauren. So glad you got to see how much your sweet words inspired and encouraged me. Being a college student with friends to spend time with is a perfect excuse actually for not visiting more blogs. I appreciate you beautiful, touching posts so much and that, to me, is such a gift I feel silly asking for more. That being said, I am very thankful you did stop by and enjoy my blog and your comment quite made my day :) Hope to see you again. You will sometime soon be featured as part of a fashion post whenever the spirit moves me in that direction :) Will always be here to support you, dear. Count on it!

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December 11, 2013 at 9:33 PM

Thanks so much. Very glad to find your blog!

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December 11, 2013 at 9:33 PM

Thank you SO, much, my sweet and lovely amiga :) xoxo

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December 11, 2013 at 9:34 PM

Thanks, Linda, for the kind words. It is a subject I deal with so much personally it helped to get it out in writing.

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