Thursday, March 13, 2014

The Cure for Quiet / La Cura Para la Tranquilidad


Hello lovely one and welcome!  Today I am writing in response to a couple of you very sweet readers who were concerned about me on an earlier poem, which is called "Quiet" and can be found here  .  It was speaking of these down time I have been getting into lately, very strong, that make me want to just say nothing, be totally silent and withdraw.


Hola hermosa uno y bienvenidos! Hoy estoy escribiendo en respuesta a un par de ustedes amables lectores que estaban preocupados por mí en un poema anterior, que se llama 'Quiet' y puede ser encontrado aquí. Estaba hablando de estos tiempo que he metido en últimamente, muy fuerte, que hacen que me quieres no digas nada, sea totalmente silencioso y retirar.


The reasons behind these I was unsure of for a while, and now I believe I have an answer.  My simple answer to the comments was it came from being lonely.  The more correct answer is that, for the first time in my life, I am coming to really know myself, allowing myself to exist as someone not shaped by others.  And I am pretty excited about what I am finding out about me.  My lack of opportunity to share it with others, my inability to find those who might be interested in knowing me more, this is where the quiet comes from.  I have so much of myself to share, so much love to give and it saddens me how little chance I get to do so.


Las razones detrás de estas era inseguro de un rato, y ahora creo que tengo una respuesta. Mi respuesta a los comentarios era provino de la soledad. La respuesta más correcta es que, por primera vez en mi vida, voy a conocer realmente a mí, permitirme existen como alguien no influenciada por otros. Y estoy muy emocionado con lo que estoy averiguando sobre mí. Mi falta de oportunidad para compartir con los demás, mi incapacidad para encontrar a aquellos que puedan estar interesados en saber más, que esto es de donde viene el silencio. Tengo muchas cosas de mí mismo para compartir, así que mucho amor para dar y se entristece me lo poco chance voy a hacerlo.


Ser una voz no un eco

My early solution to the issue is simple but very scary for me.  What better to end a quiet than a voice, my true voice, not the tone, the feelings, the thoughts, the me.  Begin to share this more directly with some of the wonderful people I have met here and on Instagram.  But the thought of it is so daunting, even though all my thoughts are full of positive energy and love.  I always feel like I am being a bother or that I might offend someone somehow and they would turn away from me.


Mi pronta solución a la cuestión es simple pero muy aterrador para mí. ¿Qué mejor para poner fin a un lugar tranquilo que una voz, mi voz verdadera, no el tono, los sentimientos, los pensamientos, el yo. Comenzar a compartir más directamente con algunas de las personas maravillosas que he conocido aquí y en Instagram. Pero la idea de es tan desalentador, aunque todos mis pensamientos están llenos de amor y energía positiva. Siempre siento que estoy siendo una molestia o podría ofender a alguien de alguna manera y voltearan lejos de mí.

Que todo lo que sea hecho en el amor

And the statement in that picture is what is so important for me, what helps keep me brave.  As long as my words are said out of love, of compassion, of caring, and as long as they are the truth, I should never spend one minute worrying about sharing them.




Y la declaración en esa foto es qué es tan importante para mí, lo que ayuda a mantenerme valiente. Mientras se dijeron que mis palabras de amor, de compasión, de memorable y mientras que son la verdad, no debería nunca pasar un minuto preocupado por compartirlos.
 

La preocupación es un mal uso de la imaginación

So I have been testing it out, not as carefully as I would have imagined because, as terrified as I was to try it, once I did it was such a rush of excitement and freedom.  There have been four test cases of this so far in about 4 days which I know does not seem like many but my original plan was maybe one a week at most.  So far I would say 2 went very well and 2 I am not certain of yet.


Así que he estado probando, no tan cuidadosamente como hubiera imaginado porque como aterrorizado como estaba a prueba, una vez lo hice era tanta prisa de entusiasmo y libertad. Ha habido cuatro casos de prueba de ésta hasta ahora en cerca de 4 días que sé que no parecen muchos pero mi plan original fue tal vez uno una semana como máximo. Hasta ahora yo diría 2 fue muy bien y 2 aún no estoy seguro de.

He aprendido a superar sus temores

And my success has truly surprised me which shows how low my self esteem can get at times.  And I doubt my successes for the same reason.  The hardest part is being myself, boldly and unafraid.  I realized the fears I had were compounded by those I thought other people might have.  I was letting their potential fears poison my thinking.  I just had to decide that, as everything I offer is meant is the kindest, most loving of ways, if it may get taken otherwise that is not my issue.  I have been struggling with that but it is the complete truth.


Y mi éxito verdaderamente me ha sorprendido que demuestra cuán bajo mi autoestima puede llegar a veces. Y dudo que mis éxitos por la misma razón. La parte más difícil es ser yo mismo, con denuedo y sin miedo. Me di cuenta de los temores que tenía se agravaron por ésos que pensé que otras personas. Estaba dejando sus temores potenciales envenenar a mi forma de pensar. Sólo tuve que decidir que, como todo lo que ofrezco es decir es el más amable, más cariñoso de formas, si puede conseguir toma otra forma no es mi problema. Yo he estado luchando con eso pero es la verdad completa.

No nunca te rindas persiguiendo lo que te hace sentir vivo.

Ideally, if I saw a post of one of yours that inspired, amazed, touched, excited me, I would let you know in every detail just the effect it had on me.  Not just in a little comment, but a truly thankful and thoughtful bit of writing.  Also, if one of you had shared times of sadness or challenge on a post, I should not hesitate to reach out and soothe, encourage, stand with you.  In my bravest moments of doing these things, though my stomach hurts with worry to do it, my heart is aglow and alive and strong.  And not the least bit quiet.


Idealmente, si vi un post de uno de los suyos que inspiró, asombrado, tocado, me emocionaba, dejaría que sabe en cada detalle sólo el efecto tenía encima. No sólo en un pequeño comentario, pero un poco verdaderamente agradecido y reflexivo de la escritura. También, si alguno de ustedes había compartido momentos de tristeza o desafío en un poste, debería no dudo en llegar y calmar, alentar, stand con usted. En mis momentos más valientes de hacer estas cosas, aunque me duele el estómago con preocupación a hacer, mi corazón está fuerte y sano y radiante. Y no el menos un poco de tranquilidad.

El mundo necesita es un abrazo grupal.

One of my two successes, offered as an example:  Today, as I waited for the mechanic to fix my car, I spent a couple hours messaging back and forth with a  friend in Holland who was very sad over a boyfriend issue and had no clue how to handle the situation.  I was able to give her steps to take towards mending the situation while, at the same time, making sure she treated herself with respect and love.  I can DO that, this is a strong point for me and yet I so often sit paralyzed saying "they have plenty of friends to console/help them.  the last thing they would want is to talk to me."  I have now begun to start stopping those thoughts.  Still very new to me but I am trying.


Uno de mis dos éxitos, ofreció como ejemplo: hoy en día, como esperé por el mecánico a arreglar mi auto, pasé un par de horas mensajería atrás y adelante con un amigo en Holanda que fue muy triste sobre un tema de novio y no tenía ni idea de cómo manejar la situación. Era capaz de dar sus pasos a tomar para reparar la situación, al mismo tiempo, asegurándose de que se trató con respeto y amor. Yo puedo hacer eso, este es un punto fuerte para mí y sin embargo tan a menudo me siento paralizada diciendo ' tienen un montón de amigos para consola/ayuda les. lo último que quieren es hablar conmigo.' Ahora he comenzado a empezar a detener esos pensamientos. Todavía es muy nuevo para mí pero estoy intentando.

Todos tenemos el potencial para hacer del mundo un lugar mejor. Hacer todas las cosas con amor, compasión y ser menos intención.

Thank you for checking out my post.  Maybe one day soon we can reach out to one another and build a bond of true friendship and love.  But, in any case, always know I really appreciate your visit and all your wonderful comments.  Hugs of varying nature and length all around :)  Be well, dears!


Gracias por ver mi post. Tal vez algún día, pronto podemos llegar a otro y construir un vínculo de amistad y amor. Pero, en cualquier caso, siempre que te agradezco tu visita y todos sus comentarios maravillosos. Abrazos de diversa naturaleza y duración todo :) Bien, queridos!



One last item:  I am featured currently on the blog of The Well Tempered Bards with one of my poems.  They were kind enough to ask me to guest host for today.  If you get the chance please stop by.  Happy Friday everyone :)  The Well Tempered Bards


Un último punto: me ofrecen actualmente en el blog de los bardos bien templado con uno de mis poemas. Fueron amables de invitarme al anfitrión para hoy. Si tienes la oportunidad por favor pase por. Feliz el viernes todos :)  The Well Tempered Bard

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March 14, 2014 at 3:14 AM

Qué buen post!

Un beso desde el equipo de Villarrazo Madrid y feliz fin de semana

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March 14, 2014 at 4:33 AM

Lovely blog, dear:)
Follow each other?
Let me know...kisses

www.silkandsmoke.blogspot.com

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March 14, 2014 at 10:18 AM

Adorable and brilliant write!! And glad to know that you have found the light and the way!!
Hope you are doin well!! :)

Happy Weekend!! :)

Love
Charu
http://www.myglossyaffair.com/

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March 16, 2014 at 7:02 AM

Great post dear!

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March 16, 2014 at 8:43 AM

very nice article
I posted a new article, I'd love to know your opinion
would you like to pass from my blog?
fashion blogger pamela soluri
kiss

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March 16, 2014 at 9:03 AM

Wow! What can I say? ... intimidates me!
Great post! I congratulate the ability and talent to curiosity to me!
I will always be coming back for more: *


Regards,
Katherine Unique


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March 16, 2014 at 2:46 PM

Tu jamas puedes molestar, tus palabras son muy bonitas.
Un beso

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March 16, 2014 at 4:24 PM

Awww shamu... you gotta stop thinking that we don't want to hear about you... You know when I post a picture or an article on the blog, and you don't come visit or comment I miss it ! Cause you always know how to cheer someone up ! Your very positive. If someone tells you straight they don't wanna talk to you... well.. too bad for them ! But just keep doing what you do ;)

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March 16, 2014 at 9:34 PM

Gracias tanto equipo. Es muy dulce :)

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March 16, 2014 at 9:39 PM

Thanks so much, lovely one! Of course I will follow your amazing blog. Kisses for you too :)

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March 16, 2014 at 9:39 PM

Thank you so much, dear. Very kind :)

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March 16, 2014 at 9:41 PM

Thank, gorgeous! You are so sweet :)

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March 16, 2014 at 9:41 PM

So sweet of you dear. Of course I will check out your lovely blog :)

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March 16, 2014 at 9:45 PM

That is amazing news! Thanks so much for the kind words. So enjoy your blog too, dear :)

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March 16, 2014 at 9:51 PM



Es una noticia maravillosa que disfruto visitando tu blog y dejar comentarios dulces. Me alegra que te gusten! ¡ Wow!!!!!!

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March 16, 2014 at 9:52 PM

You are amazingly sweet to share that with me. I will try and be as much myself as I can when leaving you comments, dear, as I now know you will be OK with it :) You are an amazing friend xoxo

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March 17, 2014 at 12:17 AM

Great post Shamu!
Always love your comments on my blog & your posts are such a pleasure to go through!
Will surely check out your guest post!

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March 17, 2014 at 3:03 AM

Sigue así eres una persona especial.

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March 17, 2014 at 2:42 PM

You know I adore you!
www.supongoestilo.blogspot.nl

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March 17, 2014 at 7:00 PM

Thank you, darling. You have been so amazing to me :) Love your blog too!

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March 17, 2014 at 7:01 PM

Muchas gracias, señora hermosa. Eso es muy alentador :)

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March 17, 2014 at 7:02 PM

That is so amazing to see, sweetie. And I certainly adore you :)

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March 17, 2014 at 7:02 PM

Ooh, thanks again, lovely one. So sweet with the second visit :)

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March 17, 2014 at 7:06 PM

Firstly, congratulations on being guest bard, yay!! This is such a touching post, and I am so happy for your successes. And it's true, you should never spend one minute worrying about sharing your words as I am sure that absolutely no-one thinks you are a bother. Keep moving forward.
xoxo

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March 17, 2014 at 8:27 PM

That is so wonderfully encouraging, Sweet Amy. You have always been so supportive of me and I cannot begin to tell you how much that means :) xoxo

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March 18, 2014 at 1:18 AM

So glad things are moving forward for you, I know how hard you've worked for it and I know how scary it can be!

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March 20, 2014 at 5:04 PM

I can identify with this. Ive spent a lot of time in my life worrying so much about something and not doing it. In your case, I do think it is much harder for men to show their loving and caring nature. Stereotypical men, it seems, must never show their feelings or care, whereas it is easier for us girls (I say easier, not easy). And But you, dear Shamu, are a rare and special breed. You are special

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March 20, 2014 at 10:56 PM

Moving slowly and clumsy of course, but sort of moving :) Thank you darling!

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March 20, 2014 at 10:57 PM

Yes, men are not taken seriously often regarding feelings. I am a very sensitive soul just brimming with the feelings but so many people are like "eek its a man" :D Oh well, the right ones will be able to see it I hope! Thanks for the wonderful, kind words, dear. Very needed!!

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Jo
March 29, 2014 at 10:56 AM

When I saw the part about "lonely", I thought that I might just have an inspirational photo to share with you on my Facebook. Will share that soon on my inspirational album.

You would never be a bother and you would never offend someone. If you did, it could be because people don't know you yet. If you let everything be done in love, it would be the right thing. Your comments whether on IG or on my blog are always a joy to read coz your radiate love and positivity!

Congrats on being featured in The Well Tempered Bards. You are definitely a Bard! Will hop over to that page now.

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April 6, 2014 at 8:39 PM

You are such an amazing person, dear. Make my life so much better. Thank you :)

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It would be so lovely to hear from you. I promise to respond either here or on your blog.