The reasons I use social media are many but I have a few larger ones, more missions than reasons, things I believe the platform can accomplish perhaps better than any other. These missions are easily discovered in my poems, my captions, my comments. There is only one, the biggest one, that is nearly undetectable and it will stay that way even though it is also the best of them. This goal can only be achieved with the most gentle nudges, the softest whispers, the lightest pulling of strings and, like any great magic trick, it loses its power when people see how its done. But it requires an immense effort, boundless patience and constant vigilance.
So, as that progresses, smaller missions are worked towards. Acceptance is the one you will see me talk about the most often. I fought for more than four decades to learn to accept myself and during that time I allowed people into my life who just pushed me further and further from that goal. False friends, relationships, even a marriage, every one demanding that I be their version of me. And I loved myself so little I complied. Never again. So the people I invest in, be it inside or out of social media, have to accept me as I am. I will tolerate those who tolerate me, but trust me, you are missing out on so much if you settle for that. I have been surprised how difficult this mission has been, that is how naive I am, how much my heart overestimates the world. But you have been out there, so few so far, but there you are. And so I know there are more and though I face another thousand blank stares, disappointments, and even though each one takes so much from me I will not stop looking.
I am painfully shy but painfully lonely
Lovely in a way so few take time to see
And even if I am just one and only
There is no choice to make but to be me
Cómo muy amable de su parte para visitar! Hola :) Hoy voy a tratar de escribir sobre algo que he querido durante tanto tiempo y nunca tomado el tiempo para escribir; ¿por qué estoy en las redes sociales.
Las razones por las que usar los medios sociales son muchos, pero tengo algunas más grandes, más misiones que razones, cosas que creo que la plataforma puede lograr tal vez mejor que cualquier otro. Estas misiones se descubren fácilmente en mis poemas, mis títulos, mis comentarios. Sólo hay una, la más grande, que es casi indetectable y se mantendrá de esa manera a pesar de que es también el mejor de ellos. Este objetivo sólo se puede lograr con los empujones más suaves, los susurros suaves, el más ligero que tiran de las cuerdas y, como cualquier gran truco de magia, pierde su poder cuando la gente ve como se hace. Pero se requiere un inmenso esfuerzo, paciencia sin límites y una vigilancia constante.
Por lo tanto, como que progresa, las misiones más pequeñas se dedican activamente a. La aceptación es el que usted verá que hable acerca de la mayoría de las veces. He luchado durante más de cuatro décadas que aprender a aceptar a mí mismo y durante ese tiempo me permite a las personas en mi vida que me empujaron más lejos y más lejos de esa meta. Los falsos amigos, relaciones, incluso un matrimonio, cada uno exigiendo que yo sea su versión de mí. Y me amé tan poco cumplí. Nunca más. Así que la gente que invertir, ya sea dentro o fuera de las redes sociales, tienen que aceptarme como soy. Voy a tolerar a los que me tolera, pero confía en mí, usted está perdiendo de mucho si te conformas con eso. Me ha sorprendido lo difícil que esta misión ha sido, es lo ingenua que soy, lo mucho que mi corazón sobreestima el mundo. Pero usted ha estado por ahí, tan pocos hasta ahora, pero ahí estás. Y por lo que sé que hay más y aunque se enfrentan a otro miles de miradas en blanco, decepciones, ya pesar de que cada uno toma mucho de mi parte no voy a dejar de buscar.
Soy muy tímido, pero dolorosamente solitario
Preciosa de una manera tan pocos se toman el tiempo para ver
E incluso si estoy solo y único
No hay más remedio que hacer, pero para ser yo
Come molto gentile a visitare! Ciao :) Oggi ho intenzione di tentare di scrivere su qualcosa che ho voluto per tanto tempo ora e appena mai avuto il tempo di scrivere; perché io sono sui social media.
Le ragioni che uso i social media sono molti, ma ho un paio di quelle più grandi, più missioni di ragioni, cose in cui credo la piattaforma può compiere forse meglio di qualsiasi altro. Queste missioni sono facilmente scoperti nelle mie poesie, le mie didascalie, i miei commenti. C'è solo una, la più grande, che è quasi impercettibile e rimarrà così anche se è anche il meglio di loro. Questo obiettivo può essere raggiunto solo con i trilli più dolci, i sussurri più morbidi, il più leggero tirando delle corde e, come ogni grande trucco di magia, perde il suo potere quando la gente vede come il suo fare. Ma richiede uno sforzo immenso, pazienza infinita e costante vigilanza.
Quindi, come che progredisce, le missioni più piccole sono lavorati verso. L'accettazione è quello che mi vedrete parlare più spesso. Ho combattuto per più di quattro decenni per imparare ad accettare me stesso e in questo periodo ho lasciato persone nella mia vita che mi ha spinto sempre più lontano da questo obiettivo. I falsi amici, relazioni, anche un matrimonio, ogni uno chiedendo che io sia la loro versione di me. E ho amato me così poco che rispettati. Mai più. Così le persone che investono in, sia esso dentro o fuori dei social media, devono accettare come sono. Io tollero chi mi tollera, ma credetemi, si sta perdendo così tanto se vi accontentate di questo. Sono stato sorpreso di quanto sia difficile questa missione è stato, questo è il modo ingenuo io, quanto il mio cuore sovrastima il mondo. Ma siete stati là fuori, così pochi finora, ma ci siete. E quindi so che ci sono più e anche se affrontare un altro migliaio di sguardi fissi nel vuoto, le delusioni, e anche se ognuno vuole così tanto da me, io non smettere di guardare.
Sono terribilmente timido, ma dolorosamente solitaria
Bella in un modo così pochi prendere tempo per vedere
E anche se io sono solo uno e solo
Non vi è alcuna scelta da fare, ma essere me
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Tulis commentsBeautiful photographs...
ReplyI think a good decision to start living your life without the pressure of having to pleasing everyone else, you will gradually specifying each of your plans!
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Such lovely photos and a beautiful read!! :)
ReplyGirl About Town blog
There's nothing happier than being ourselves. Perhaps you've been surrounded by a few wrong people. Don't push things, just relax and enjoy what life's offering. Be you, leave when you've enter the wrong door.
ReplyBeautiful post!! Love it! xo
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Of course I don't know you that well, I see only what you choose to show here on the net. But from what I have known so far you seem such a nice person, talented, kind, with great sense of humour. I wish you all the luck in your search.
ReplyWow, great piece... extremely creative work!!
ReplyThanks for the support and thoughtful words on my recent post, I deeply appreciate it!!
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being ourselves is sometimes a weakness and sometimes a strengh still there's no other way...
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And nice words
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Nice post, love the photos!xx
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Estoy de acuerdo contigo, las redes sociales son muy útiles.
ReplyLas fotos que nos muestran son preciosas.
Un abrazo
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very inspiring Shamu! It is true that in social media there are fakes out there but it is also true that we can always find some who are real and can offer us inspiration and even love even if they are far from us. Just like how you are to me and all my other blogger friends. Thanks Shamu!!!
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Thanks so much dear :)
ReplyYou are so right my gorgeous friend!! Thanks for the sweet words :)
ReplyVery glad you liked it, dear! Thanks :)
ReplyBeing able to leave took so long to learn but yes it is the best choice sometimes. Thank you for the lovely, thoughtful comment!
ReplyThanks so much dear! xoxo
ReplyPeople like you show me the search is not in vain, dear. Thank you so much!!!
ReplyVery sweet! Thanks :)
ReplyEven what seems like weakness can be the truest strength. Thank you foe the sweet words lovely friend!
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ReplySo much love to you too, dear! You have always been so kind and sweet to me and I treasure it :)
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Let your inner self shine my friend..don't be lonely coz there is no reason to be lonely. Cheer up,dress up and show up...you have a gift to the world..xoxo
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Beautiful photos and a lovely read! :)
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Passando para ti desejar, bom final de semana.
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ReplyLove your post, great content! Thanks for the support and thoughtful words on my recent post, I deeply appreciate it!! Have a great weekend!!
MyLyfeMyStory
Beautiful post, very deep.
ReplyI think that you shouldn't fear to show yourself just the way you are, why should you? to have fake friends?
I bet that the worl is full of people ready to appreciate your true self, so let them find you! :D
Beautiful photos!
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look amazing pics and poem
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Feliz fin de semana Rick
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Maggie D.
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this is truly lovely. thank you for sharing this and please continue writing. your words and thoughts are wonderful to read.
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ReplyThanks so much gorgeous :)
ReplyThanks so much, Kenny. You too!
ReplyBom dia mi amiga :)
ReplyBig kisses for you dear :)
ReplyThanks dear you too!
ReplyIt is working, dear, just very slowly, but really worth the wait :) Thank you so much!! xoxo
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ReplyI really appreciate that, dear, so kind of you :)
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making others happy by changing ourselves never really works, because when we are unhappy, we can't make others happy.... we all need to find our own way. Lovely text...and I wish you luck in your search.
ReplyWell said!! I think it happens to a lot of us at some time in our lives. We try to be what somebody else wants us to be or tries to mold us into. This, of course, never works. The best thing is believing in yourself and being accepted for the way you are. Unfortunately we can't make all of the people happy all of the time. :) :)
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Replyun beso
Maggie D.
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Great things are achieved with a collection of smaller goals! Awesome!
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I hope you achieve what you set out to do. People are scared to be perceived as oddballs themselves so they put up barriers or shy away from the nonstereotypical person. You're not a stereotype, you are different which is no bad thing.
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